GETTING ANTSY GOING DOWN ON ....?

Being antsy and angst going down with your man angry bird? It's either you don't like to do it..or just don't know how to do it.

 (ooops..again..this may sound a little bit rated but to assure you there's no pornographic content included here...just a handful tips to those who have a traditional perception talking about s*x)


It hardly matters whether or not you agree performing oral sex but you probably have to  know the good thing going down on and why you might change your mind if you don't. 

Though many admit practicing this act, in this particular conservative catholic like us Filipinos , many Pinays still uncomfortable and sexually repressed about the views and opinions of oral sex. For them it's a private subject and hard to talk about the blow by blow performing to a man's temple of testerone. They think it's dirty and indecent. 


Anyway, the truth is.... sex plays an important part in every relationship. No matter how hard you try to avoid it, will be there to haunt you at some point in your life. But I'm not disregarding the fact that every girl should give herself the option of discovering the pleasure of this facet of sexual relations. 

Sex should be fun and exciting to spice up both your libidinousness. And doing the act is a matter of performance not to get bored. One element to do the right thing is the oral sex. If you both want to enjoy and be satisfied; you should be mixing it in your sexual options without hesitations.


Going down on is a great way to wildly turn him on. Every guy wants it and they're grateful when they get it. So don't wait your man to beg you this. Let go of all your preconceived notions.Giving him a good head is a good compromise.

I'm not portraying to be another sex guru like Dr. Margie Holmes and  the highly skilled in the art fellatio Ms. Asia Agcaoili . But being mindful to my partner's sensual needs and emotions , sharing my insights and experiences in having a good sex life and attitude somehow could help open the minds of the Pinay's Eva with their blow job blues.

Now to settle your anxiousness and hang ups dancing your tongue to your man's tool, here's to read  mind blowing tips of performing it.

• Don't be sparing with your affection. Kiss, fondle, massage and do whatever feels good to you.
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• Keep your lips over your teeth, remember, even the tiniest nick will hurt.
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• Take your time. What's the hurry? Pay equal undivided attention to all regions and parts with your lips and tongue. Explore and enjoy!
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• BJ shouldn't just be about up and down motions or even deep throating, you can use your hands quite a bit to help you. Be creative, adding different combinations with both hands or your mouth  make more enjoyable. Use any part of your body that feels right..even your breasts may come in handy.
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• Rubbing his delicious cock on your face, neck and chest is also quite visually stimulating, so do not forget to show him how much you are enjoying in addition to focusing on your technique.
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• Don't get ceremonies about it...just work it into the program naturally. Nothing can jar a guy more than awkward, " Uh, can you wash first"
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• Learn to breathe through your nose alone or taking breaks by using your hands is a good way to maintain the pleasurable flow of stimulation to his penis.Practice with a banana..or do like Madonna did in Truth or Dare, use a coke bottle. Special sex toy will also do but be sure it's a non toxic and cleanse it after use to avoid potential harmful infection.
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• If you aren't going to swallow (some women do, and some women don't_ it's totally up to you), don't make a big fuss about running to the bathroom to spit it out. Any spitting should be done discreetly. Keep in mind, too, that most men don't like coming to orgasm in "open air".
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• Lastly an intimate communication. It is the best way to strengthen your sexual desires. If you both want to end the momentum with full satisfaction...talk about what really turns you on and flatter him with an extreme desire not an awkward question.
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• Good luck and have a great sexcapade ..of course with your ever endearing lovey dovey!